Your children count on you to be there for them growing up and really even all through their lives. How well do you think you will do at parenting? I am certain that most of you will/are outstanding parents, however, I also believe many parents are making enormous mistakes that could affect their children's lives forever. Obsessing about things such as cellulite can eventually rub off on your children, in a very negative way.
It is very important for all of you to realize that anything you say or do, those little ones are picking up on every bit of it and sometimes that information they gathered whenever they were younger, carry it along with them on into adulthood. Doing that will turn out to be an endless cycle because they will be unhappy with their body, their children will probably have the same behavior, and so on and so on.
It is a very negative cycle and if you can possibly do anything to prevent these negative views from rubbing off on your children then I suggest that you start doing some things differently, right now, before it is too late. While they are still young, they watch, listen and mock everything that their parents do. If you fight all the time in front of the, chances are they are going to turn out to be very aggressive or angry with whomever they end up with. If you complain about feeling ugly, fat or anything else, such as worrying or obsessing over your cellulite problem all the time, they too are going to grow up feeling bad about their bodies, their appearance overall and even probably mentioning something about cellulite along the way.
Cellulite is not something for you to obsess about, especially not in front of your children. They are very impressionable and will live their lives through what you have taught them growing up, sometimes they do as you do, other times as they grow older they try to make certain changes, so that they can be better than how they remembered you when they were a small child.
It just really depends on many things that occur throughout their life. Dealing with cellulite can be done pretty easy actually. Start using vitamin e lotions each day, that tends to help diminish some of the cellulite. Change yours and your children's eating habits, for the better. Teach them positive things about food, exercise and just life in general. They will turn out to be very strong, positive thinking adults, just as you would have wanted them to do.
They love you and want you, as their parents, to also be happy. So, stop wasting your time and theirs, complaining about your cellulite problem and start telling them how awesome they are and having more fun with them, it will all turn out much better in the very end. Do it for yourself and for your children.
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